When I leave HK, I wish for time to pass faster and for myself to be strong to face days in Singapore where I will be alone. The both of us are not having a whale of a time being apart. For me, I get challenged all the time for living apart from the hubby. When I am up there, I throw the occasional pout and say I dun want to come back to Singapore. He would then say, 'dun go back lor...' When I tell him that I get challenged by friends about my decision, he would say, 'if you really want to stay, then come over.' But when he seats me down and reason with me, he wouldn't want me to quit my job.