Read on Lene's blog what she further commented on my thoughts on friendships..
She mentioned that sometimes certain words are uttered out of spite or without any intention to cause hurt to the other party, but the opposite reaction happened..it ended up hurting the other party. And that can ruin the 'bridge' that sometimes take decades to build. How true!
Sometimes I wonder, as friends.. dont we have the right to be honest with one another and to tell each other how each feels? But sometimes, the words don't come out right...it then hurts the other party. But does the other party say?
Sometimes, I hurt friends without knowing what I did. And sometimes friends hurt me without knowing, but often, I don't have the courage to tell them. I just try to dismiss it that they are having a bad day or I try to be gracious. But sometimes being gracious is so hard...it often backfires..
I dunno what I am writing..maybe with too much time on hand right now, I just become melancholic.
She mentioned that sometimes certain words are uttered out of spite or without any intention to cause hurt to the other party, but the opposite reaction happened..it ended up hurting the other party. And that can ruin the 'bridge' that sometimes take decades to build. How true!
Sometimes I wonder, as friends.. dont we have the right to be honest with one another and to tell each other how each feels? But sometimes, the words don't come out right...it then hurts the other party. But does the other party say?
Sometimes, I hurt friends without knowing what I did. And sometimes friends hurt me without knowing, but often, I don't have the courage to tell them. I just try to dismiss it that they are having a bad day or I try to be gracious. But sometimes being gracious is so hard...it often backfires..
I dunno what I am writing..maybe with too much time on hand right now, I just become melancholic.
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